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As much as we love them, this is an adults-only wedding weekend. We hope the advance notice gives you plenty of time to make arrangements and come let your hair down with us.

If a plus one is included with your invitation, absolutely. If you’re not sure, just drop Meg or Bill a message.

No. We’d love you there for as much of it as you can make, but your RSVP lets you answer separately for Friday, the wedding and Sunday breakfast.

Arrival drinks start at 12:00pm, with the ceremony at 1:00pm. So please don’t make Meg walk down the aisle while you’re still parking the car.

Friday: Effortlessly cool. Saturday: Bring the glam. Sunday: Comfort is king. There’s a little more guidance on The Weekend page, but we’re not interested in giving you a 14-page dress code manifesto. Wear something you feel great in.

Some guests have been allocated accommodation at The Harty Estate. If that’s you, your version of the website will tell you and you should message Meg or Bill for your room details. Everyone else can find our recommended nearby accommodation on The Venue page.

Onsite rooms are being allocated rather than booked independently. If your invitation says you’re staying onsite, you’re sorted — just get in touch with us for the details.

Full directions are on The Venue page. If you’re coming by train, we recommend travelling to Sittingbourne and taking a pre-booked taxi from there.

Yes — there is parking at The Harty Estate.

We’ll have taxis running from The Harty Estate between 11:00pm and 1:00am on Saturday night. If you’re staying offsite, please tell us where you’re staying when you RSVP. We’ll use that information to organise the drop-offs in advance and let the taxi drivers know where everyone needs to get to.

Yes, if you need one to get there. Harty is rural, so please arrange your journey to the venue in advance. The taxis we’re organising from 11:00pm–1:00am are for getting guests away from the venue after the wedding.

If you have any allergies or dietary requirements we need to know about, please message Meg or Bill so we can make sure you’re looked after.

Having you there is the important bit. If you would like to give us something, we’d be incredibly grateful for a contribution towards our honeymoon. But genuinely, no pressure.

Please RSVP by 10 October 2026. The sooner the better. Mainly because spreadsheets make us happy.

Life happens. Just message Meg or Bill and we’ll update your RSVP.

Then we’ve spectacularly failed at writing an FAQ. Drop either of us a message and we’ll sort you out.